[angry rant]
Games are social activities, but if you're not playing to win, you might as well do something else. Otherwise you're just succumbing to mediocrity. One of the things I really dislike about playing games with some of my friends, and especially my wife, is that they whine about me doing anything to anyone that could hinder them or favor me. It makes no sense and some days it really takes the wind out of my sails. It's like complaining that someone put you in check or that the pitcher is throwing too fast. These people would rather play tee-ball and give everyone a trophy. Give me a break!
[/angry rant]
When I teach anyone any game, I always show them several options for each move and point out what I think would be best especially if it hurts me and I rarely win. Once they know how to play, it's game on!
I'm not bitter...