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The Marketplace / Re: WTS Crop Circles I, Darmstadt Promo,Müller Exklusiv-Edition,Le Sac Big box 4 Wof
« on: July 17, 2023, 12:48:10 AM »Oh, I had already chatted with him on GEEK and he asked for a direct transfer so I gave up. Because I think a real seller should provide a reliable platform, even if there is a handling fee.
Hi daveztpc2000, welcome to the community. I haven't been active on here recently but felt compelled to raise a couple of points.
On a general note, any seller has the right to list and request a sales process however they prefer. Equally, any prospective buyer can choose to accept that process or propose something else, but fundamentally it is the right of each party to accept or not. If you don't like the process on offer, you do not have to go through with it and have no right to expect someone to bow to your desire.
The community has chosen to keep sales and offers in the open for a number of good reasons. It gives other members an idea of what items are currently being offered or bought for to help them make informed decisions in the future. It also makes it less likely that someone will pay grossly too much or too little for an item which is good for less experienced collectors who may have more enthusiasm that patience!
I say this with no offence intended, as you may know you are reliable and trustworthy, but you do not yet have an established reputation in the community. A good proportion of your posts (9) to date relate to this thread. While it might seem unfair, and with no judgement intended, you are currently the riskier part of the exchange.
From personal experience I can say that The Edge is a reliable, generous, and very helpful member of the community. But even if I had no personal experience, I could see from his profile how engaged, helpful, and well respected he has proven to be. He is a known and valued member of the community.
Carcassonne Central is a great community of players and collectors who share a passion for this game. We all gain from each other's enthusiasm and support, whether that is knowledge, advice, or a less risky place to buy/ sell/ trade than eBay or BGG. It operates on reputation and trust.
While I am not as active as I was, I still enjoy and appreciate the dedication and generosity of fellow members and hope you do too.